March 2020 | MySoulrenity

Quiz: What Level Is Your Awareness?

March 30, 2020 By // by Sara Leave a Comment

Self awareness helps us establish and maintain healthy interactions with others and more importantly ourselves. It gives us the confidence to know who we are and what we have to offer, both personally and professionally.

Awareness is the root of self-esteem and allows us to understand our strengths and our weaknesses.

So…how self aware are you? Take our quiz below to find out more!

How often are you accused of saying something hurtful, when that is not your intention?

Rarely

Sometimes

This happens regularly

Do friends come to you often for advice?

No, way! We don't discuss our problems.

Only as much as I do them.

Yes, but I usually only tell them what I would do.

In past relationships what is the closest to something you heard frequently?

"You're so hard to read, I wish you'd open up."

"You have a lot of issues, I think you need help. I can't fix you."

"Thank you for talking to me about _____ respectfully. I feel better."

How reactionary would you consider yourself?

I think most situations through taking into account others' point of views.

I often act first and deal with the consequences later.

I try to keep my cool, but sometimes I am impulsive.

At a party or event where do you often find yourself?

Moving around people and speaking to those I know, while being polite to those I don't.

Keeping close to whomever I attended with. I hate going to these things alone.

Off in the back of the room surveying others and keeping to myself.

What are you more likely to be doing during your free time?

Sleeping or trying to keep my head above the word. I'm often tired or drained.

Reading, listening to music, or creating something (art, writing, DIY, etc).

Enjoying hours of video games or some other hobby that helps me relax and escape my day.

Do people often tell you things about yourself that you were not aware of?

Sometimes someone close to me makes an observation about my personality.

No, I know myself very well.

It happens but normally during an exchange of sharing things with those people.

Your greatest fear is...

Having a meaningless or worthless life.

Loss or abandonment

Being wrong or mediocrity

What are you searching for?

Material things make me happy. I like the pleasures in life and take pride in images and appearances. If I could be rich I would die happy.

Being of service to others. I like to help others where needed. I work well in groups whether I am leading or supporting. It is fulfilling.

That's hard to say. It's a bit of a mixed and find myself happy with the simple things like love, goodness, truth, understanding, and healing.

My story line might be...

I am life.

I do life.

Life happens to me.

What Level Is Your Awareness?

Low level

You might want to buy a mirror and a tape recorder. If you look closer you will find that your foundation for growth and change needs a shift. For your own growth you will need to create more self discipline. This will naturally leave to an inner healing within yourself (that we all have) so that you may take a deeper look inward.

Right now you may feel lost or unsure of what your purpose is. You may even lack passion if you answer honestly. The coping tools you have been using are not creating but only sustaining you. One would say that you are easily influenced more by others and by mass or collective awareness (i.e. society).

Each day is a new day for us to grow and evolve. Your life started with coming into the world, learning to move, and speak, then on to being able to make decisions for yourself, and ultimately being independent. This is what will bring a meaningful and purposeful life.

It's important that you start doing your best to overcome egotistical and psychological and egotistical blocks and challenges hindering your growth.

Medium level

Nice! A little fine tuning and you are all set. Ok, so you have a little work to do, but you are on the right path. Right now there is an ongoing movement towards more togetherness, structure, sensitivity, understanding, respect, self-determination, responsibility and bravery.

There is more love development, spiritual awareness/wellness and seeing from your soulrenity's desire. Sometimes it feels like a lot for you to juggle the dualities of life as you view it. At times it may be hard for you to find direct fault from yourself unto others and the world on a whole. You might even experience some victimization or feelings of self guilt. You develop morals and ethics and obey societal laws for the most part.

Keeping working on fleshing out the character that is you. Find your core virtues and values and think about why they are important to you. Pay more attention to your thoughts and work on clearing out the subconscious mind that filters and colors your higher self. It would be a good idea for you to look inward and learn, grow, discover, align with others, be creative and have personal time and space. You find time to sit and self reflect about your future self. You are building a strong emotional, mental and personality base that is opening up to a spiritual life.

High level

Wow! You have this self-awareness thing down! This is the time in your journey where you must make a major paradigm shift in your way of thinking, loving and being of service. You are being called upon to use more of your intuition, transformational tools and the bravery to be the real you - your truest self.

You already know that you grasps higher conceptual thinking and the power of signs, synchronicities, symbols and meditation. No one needs to tell you that life is more about qualities instead of quantities. It is about contentness, freedom, peace, and helping in a world of cause instead of effects.

You may already be engaging in self-healing and pride yourself on knowing what awareness is and how to create more awareness. You are able to discern the right actions for the right reasons and you stand by your principles.

You are interdependent and work well with others and groups. You know what it takes to manifest the life you want. You are 100% accountable and are the cause of what attracts to yourself. You understand and do your best to align with universal laws. You identify often with soul and the greater good, humanity, truth and wholeness of all interactions and things.

Change is progressive, evolutionary and transformative. You get into a rhythm of life and experience patience and timelessness. Life seems simpler. You perceive the meaning and purpose of all encounters and events. You are much more in the present moment as you are guided and respond to the needs of others. You are fulfilling your own spiritual needs.

5 Ways To Stay Positive In Isolation

March 16, 2020 By // by Sophie Leave a Comment

I often find myself speaking with clients who suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. With the current coronavirus pandemic, I’ve had my hands full, fielding queries from clients from all over the country. Many of them are facing all sorts of challenging issues.

The most common question has been, “How can I keep myself from getting it?” The answer to that one is easy: follow the national health care organization’s recommendations – American Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

How can I stay sane if I’ve been quarantined?

With this in mind – and with millions of people across the world in either voluntary or enforced isolation at home – there is the potential for serious stress, loneliness, and fear of being stuck at home with nothing to do and nowhere to go. So whether you’re in isolation or worried you might be at some point in the near future, here are 5 ways to stay positive during quarantine.

1. Stay in contact. Reach out to your loved ones. Connecting with others help ourselves and family to stay positive in a time of illness and to help them in their recovery process. Call, text, email, video chat anyone whom you are missing. For every person who’s going stir crazy in their apartment, the good news is that you’re not alone and can easily call a friend, family member, colleague, or neighbor who’s stuck in the same boat. We are never alone.

2. Exercise. Just because your gym is closed doesn’t mean that you can’t do your daily exercise routine. Many good studies show that daily cardiovascular exercise works as a treatment for anxiety and depressive disorders. Not feeling anxious or depressed yet? Exercise is also a preventative measure to promote mental wellbeing. So dust off that treadmill, unroll that yoga mat, or start a new regimen of push-ups, sit-ups, and jumping jacks today.

3. Mindfulness. We’ve all heard about mindfulness but very few of us actually practice it. Somewhere between meditation and relaxation is this form of psychological self-soothing that allows a person to be aware of their internal state. Mindfulness is a tremendous tool for decreasing one’s emotional temperature, especially during times of stress! Now is a great time to learn mindfulness practice and to put it to use. The smartphone apps Headspace, Oak, and Calm are a great place to start.

4. Do Things. Have you ever wanted to understand how volcanoes work, wished you spoke better Japanese, or learned how to sew your own quilt? Now is your chance to take on that amazing academic project you always wanted to tackle! Not only do you have the time, but it will keep your mind off of anything worrisome while simultaneously keeping you productive. Maybe it’s time to start a new daily routine. Wherever your learning level is at, there’s always more to be done and now you finally have the time!

5. Keep the Big Picture in Mind. The coronavirus is only a few nanometers in size and yet it’s wreaking havoc upon the mightiest of people and has brought the mightiest countries in the world to their knees. The irony should not be too hard to grasp and we should all remember how many miraculous things we have going for us. Just consider it for a moment how good life is: If you’re reading this, you have electricity and most likely clean water and food. Presumably someone shared this link with you which means that people care about you and the people you’ll share this link with are people you care about too. Remember how blessed you are and with the Universe’s help we will all get through this alive and well.

In times of constant unpleasant media streaming, you need ways that you can keep your positive attitude and march forward with determination and hope. Be deliberate in activities that are positive, heartwarming, stress reducing and laughter inducing! Together, we’ll get through this.

Prenatal Yoga + You

March 2, 2020 By // by Sara Leave a Comment

As a yoga instructor, my first question to my doctor when I found out I was pregnant was “But can I still do yoga safely?”. He happily assured me I could as long as I was smart about accommodating the new spirit growing within.

I practice yoga daily and can’t imagine what my life would be like without it. Beyond the usual benefits, yoga is a grounding, energizing activity for me that I use as a tool to not only regulate my body but also my mind. I wanted my baby to get a “feel” for what our shared body could do so I implemented prenatal yoga as soon as I could.

Is prenatal yoga really safe?

Yes it is. I won’t lie, doing yoga while growing a baby has been challenging but it is totally safe. I started adapting my yoga routine immediately and have continued to do so as I move through the various trimesters. All levels of yoga can try this, even if you’ve never done it before! The class I attend has several first time beginners at yoga. There are specific trainers who have knowledge within the prenatal yoga field. It may be a blend of Kundalini, Hatha, and Ashtanga flow. The instructors will be able to assist you make the necessary adjustments to ensure the safety of you and the baby. No matter what listen to your own body. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. Always stay regular on your check-ins within your physician for anything deemed high risk.

Your body produces a hormone called relaxin throughout your pregnancy that helps to make room for your growing baby and prepare for delivery. The presence of relaxin may make you feel more flexible than usual, but be careful not to overstretch; it’s also possible to destabilize joints and ligaments during this time.

The biggest danger to pregnant yoga is falling. Therefore, minimize that risk, especially once your belly starts to protrude, by being careful with balancing poses. Skip any poses that could make you feel lightheaded to reduce the risk of fainting.

What are the benefits of prenatal yoga?

Physical benefits

The benefits of prenatal yoga are very similar but even more important some would say, of your normal yoga routine. I’ve noticed a definite reduction in lower back pain and possible sciatica. Once I became more aware of my new body alignment, I began to carry myself (and my belly!) in an integrated manner. This helped reduce the degree of pelvic tilt and in turn has relieved me of achy backs.

I haven’t had any of the swelling around my joints, I even just flew out of the country. Normal yoga practice improves and helps the circulation of blood and oxygen throughout the body. This is exactly what you will need to avoid swollen ankles, calfs, and puffy arms and wrists. Sleeping has been much easier than I ever imagined with the steady presence of prenatal yoga. I have been able to adjust the fluidity in my spine more naturally to get comfortable more easily.

I do highly recommend this pillow however, which has helped me fall asleep in place if I happen to feel fatigued around the house. Depending on the direction you place the C-shape in, the entire length of your back or torso can be cushioned and the pillow can be tucked between your knees, too. Which I had the flexibility to do easily from yoga.

Mental benefits

Most yoga can incorporate visual imagery. Prenatal yoga is no different and practicing visual imagery now can become one of the most useful labor tools. Think about what you’ll need to focus on during those roller-coaster powered contractions. This type of yoga will help you develop moment by moment awareness in your body and later with pain management during labor.

Breathing may be easy now, but a key part of all labor is in breathwork. Deep belly breathing helps move the body into the action of the parasympathetic nervous system (rest-and-relax response). The body responds to the parasympathetic nervous system by slowing the heart rate and decreasing blood pressure while increasing the release of endorphins. Once you’ve imprinted the memory of your relationship to your breath it can assist in managing the growing pain of a contraction and access that skill as needed.

This may sound like a silly one but I’ve learned through prenatal yoga how to speak up. The class has given me the space and opportunity to become comfortable with my own power to vocalize my body’s silent words. Vocalization encourages a commitment to a long, deep inhale, and a long, slow exhale. Both are supportive of deep belly breathing needed for the opening necessary to birth your baby.

Prenatal poses

I’ve tried a variety of prenatal poses and have found several of them to be very comfortable. The ones I enjoy most are these three:

Cobbler’s Pose (Baddha Konasana): A gentle hip opener that stretches the inner thighs; use props under each knee for support if necessary
Legs-Up-the-Wall (Viparita Karani): An antidote to swollen ankles and feet
Cat-Cow Stretch (Chakravakrasana): A gentle way to wake up your spine that also helps your baby get into the best position for delivery

Any poses that make more space in your newly crowded abdomen, strengthens your legs, opens your hips or stretches the spine gently will be beneficial pre and during labor.

**Here are some other great prenatal poses from yogajanda.com**

Support system

When I first decided to shift my yoga for pregnancy I was surprised how natural it felt. Prenatal yoga often includes poses to assist in the toning and improving of muscles.

However, my emotional well being was also improved. Participation in a group prenatal class provides a supportive community of other women who are experiencing each stage of pregnancy themselves and preparing for birth.

Pregnancy can be an interesting and exciting time as you watch your body change before your eyes. But, it’s also still a bit mysterious. Yoga will help give you the tools you need to slow down, listen, and enjoy all that the experience of expecting has in store for you.

Honor your body and your baby by treating it with care and the benefits could be tenfold.

Update: Sara gave birth to a healthy baby boy a couple of weeks ago and is happy to start her post natal yoga routine!

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